OurMaybe

OurMaybe shows a couple what they both want, and nothing else. You each answer the same list on your own phone, one line at a time: yes, maybe, or no. When you're both done, you see the lines neither of you turned down. A no is never shown, never counted and never hinted at. HOW IT WORKS • Pair up once with a link. No account, no password. • Pick a list and answer it alone. Tap or swipe: right for yes, left for no, up for maybe. • Your partner answers the same list on their phone. • You both see the overlap: what you both said yes to, and the maybes worth a second look. THE LISTS • Date Night: 52 ideas, from tonight to someday • Getaways: where you'd both go and how you'd travel • Movie Night: what you'd both actually watch • Dinner for Two: cooking, ordering and trying new places • Out & Active: sports, hobbies and things to do together • Books & Culture: what you'd read, hear and go see • After Dark: a private list for adult couples, 18+, in three levels AFTER DARK: THE GAME • Six levels of cards for one evening, dealt only from what you both chose in private. • Pass the phone: each of you picks preferences alone, and a no is never shown. • Timers, swaps, a quiz about each other, and a finale. Level I is free. PRIVATE BY DESIGN • Your answers are encrypted with a key that only exists on your two phones. • Your partner never sees what you turned down. Neither do we. • Lock the app with Face ID. • Delete your shared space, with everything in it, at any time. You can stop a list and finish it later; your progress stays on your phone. OurMaybe also runs in any browser at ourmaybe.com.