Commonly: Shared Load

Commonly is for two people who share a home. Each of you answers a short Load Check on your own phone, sealed until you both finish. Then you see where your views differ, and every Sunday you thank each other for specific things. A FEW QUESTIONS, NO RIGHT ANSWERS For each of eight areas, say who carries more, from noticing to doing. About five minutes. Remembering the dentist counts, not just going. SEALED UNTIL YOU BOTH FINISH Nobody sees anything until you both finish. There is no way to peek, and nothing to argue about halfway through. Share cards hide names by default. SEE WHERE YOUR VIEWS DIFFER, TOGETHER Both views side by side, the gap in points, and the areas where it shows most. Areas are compared. People never are. SUNDAY SYNC About ten minutes on Sunday: one thank-you per thing each of you carried, and next week agreed by you both. WHAT’S INSIDE • Today: the one thing to do next, what is yours, and a way to add what you noticed in seconds. • Question of the day: one question for both of you, sealed until you have both answered. • Wishes: things, food and trips either of you would like, in one shared list. Your own photos, no store. • Time together: ideas for a free afternoon or evening. Plan one and it goes on the calendar. • Calendar and lists: dates that matter, with the days left, and lists that stay in sync. • People radar: birthdays and dates that matter, a reminder ten days ahead, and gift ideas you can put on Today. • Repair note: after a hard day, a quiet way to start again. Private until you send it. • How I like to be thanked: a preference, not a type. WHAT COMMONLY LEAVES OUT No scores, streaks or rankings between you. Nothing shows who owes what. No compatibility score, no personality labels. Any two people who share a home; colours belong to people, never to gender. No ads, no selling data, no tracking across apps. Commonly does not promise anything for your relationship. It shows the load and makes thanks easy. FREE TO START. PRO FOR THE WEEKLY RHYTHM. Free: the Load Check and the reveal, pairing with the person you share a home with, Today, items, dates, lists, wishes and the question of the day. Commonly Pro adds each area in detail and who carries what over the weeks, handing over whole areas, the Sunday Sync and the repair note. One plan covers both of you, whoever pays. Commonly Pro is an auto-renewing subscription, weekly or every 3 months. Payment goes through your Apple ID. Cancel any time in Settings, at least 24 hours before it renews. PRIVACY Sign in with Apple or with an email. Voice is optional: your iPhone turns what you say into text on the phone itself, and no audio is recorded or kept. Optional drafts from Claude (the Sunday Sync sentence, gift ideas) are made only when you ask. Photos are reduced on your iPhone, without location or camera data. Terms of Use: https://getcommonly.com/terms Privacy Policy: https://getcommonly.com/privacy Support: https://getcommonly.com/support In English, Portuguese (Brazil) and Spanish, following your phone. iPhone with iOS 17 or later.